Reconnecting with Yourself: Embracing Your Identity After Becoming a Parent

Becoming a parent is a transformative experience, but it often comes with feelings of losing your sense of self. This shift can lead to grief—not because you don’t love your baby, but because you may mourn the parts of you that have changed. It’s a natural response to the adjustment of stepping into the role of parent.

Grief, in this case, is about losing the freedom, goals, and identity you once had. This doesn’t mean you care any less for your baby—it’s simply part of the transition to your new life. Reconnecting with yourself is key to navigating this change and becoming the best parent you can be.

Take time to nurture yourself by engaging in activities that bring joy, communicating openly about your feelings, and reaching out for support when needed. By caring for your well-being, you will be better equipped to connect with your baby and others, embracing both your role as a parent and your individuality.

Ready to take a step toward rediscovering yourself? Start by giving yourself permission to prioritize yourself. Click below to download your Permission Slip, and choose one thing to reconnect with the individual you are outside of parenting.

LIVLoved

Telisha Woodfin is a seasoned behavioral health professional with over 18 years of experience supporting children and families across Virginia. She is the founder of LIVLoved, a business that supports new and expectant parents in the Richmond, VA area through postpartum doula support, infant massage, and parent coaching. Telisha is also the co-founder of "The Momtourage," an online community for mothers. A graduate of Virginia Commonwealth University, Telisha is a wife and mother of three. Her life mission is to nurture the physical, psychological, emotional, and spiritual

well-being of others by demonstrating love.

https://www.livloved.com
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